Gemma starred on the E4 show last year along with other female stars including athlete Jade Jones, TV presenter London Hughes and singer Tallia Storm.
Gemma can also be heard demanding to see a show counsellor, while she also refuses to film the show in Wales, saying: “If you want me film me in Essex.”
James Argent’s girlfriend tells bosses she will hand back her £60,000 fee for the show if her demands are not met.
In the recording Gemma can be heard saying: “Have me hanging around to film with three people that are clearly not up to my TV level. Don’t put me in scenes with them girls.
“If this show’s going to be me one on one making me find love I don’t need to sit there listening to the girls’ b******t.
“Where’s the counsellor, I’m about to kill myself.
“I’m a f*****g star, you can’t put me hanging around all day. I’m not waiting around for no one.
Gemma is currently starring on Dancing on Ice [ITV]
“If you want me film me in Essex, if not just send your money back. I’m not going to film with three people in Wales.
“I’m not filming with people that are just not star quality.
“Find another celeb. Unless you’re filming in Essex.
“Other people in this show ain’t really as important as me.
“I’m the best one.”
OK! online has contacted a representative for Gemma and a Celebs Go Dating spokesperson for comment.